December is here and one of the most asked questions of the human race is what is your New Year Resolution.
Well how did it start, who started it and do we really make the resolution and live up to it??
Hey Friends! This is Dvinesilky with yet another dis-topic as in Discussion Topic which we have on our plate.
Well, New Year is approaching and you can feel the chilly air around and the sense of Plum Cake as it precedes New Year.
Christmas knocks on our door and We are all thrilled that the Cake carnival festival is on.
But yeah, we all start introspecting the year, the good, the bad and the things which were left untouched in your list.
So why do we have a List, what changes apart from the Year column in our Date format and why is there the concept of Resolution.
What is New Year Resolution?
Well according to the Definition in Wikipedia, we have :
” A New Year resolution is a tradition, most common in the Western Hemisphere but also found in the Eastern Hemisphere, in which a person resolves to change an undesired trait or behavior, to accomplish a personal goal or otherwise improve their life.”
Thus, we infer that it is a tradition but do we really think that the resolution concept should be implemented just for the sake of tradition?
We tend to create these resolutions to provide structure to our lives.
Like for example, a non-morning person will make resolution that s/he will start waking up early in the morning.
A business guy will have resolution that I need to reach a particular number of sales figures.
A person who is in Job would think of buying a house by the end of next year.
And best of all, girls think that they will start taking care of myself and maybe reduce some weight by the end of the next year (Girls’ I tell you)!
Yeah we worry about the future, we plan it, try to predict it and want it in a certain way.
We don’t realize that the future is our home of deepest fear and our wildest thoughts. It proves the point that one must have always an alternative. The approach should be like if one plan do not stick then go for another one. Because it is never the same as we imagine it.
Instead we spend a lot of time calculating the things we should do to reach our desire or our plan.
Point is why should we wait for the arrival of New Year and why not Monthly Resolution or Weekly Resolution.
Bring change in daily routine to pursue a better living. And we should not wait for a particular day or time to do that.
In fact, we should start taking up things, making changes right when you feel there is a need for it.
Thus, do not wait whole year to try something new or buy something you desire for the following year.
Make the most of what you can, when you can and try not to be so particular about reaching the destination.
Enjoy the journey and Focus on the Next step rather than completing the Bigger Picture.
“Have a Happy New Year Folks!! Enjoy and wait for my next Dis-Topic “